
Festive Afternoon Tea Experiences at the Manor - Ballinderry Park

Rowan Stainsby
There’s a particular magic to afternoon tea taken in a Georgian drawing room—the gentle clink of fine china, the warmth of a crackling fire, the soft light filtering through tall windows. At , this quintessentially refined tradition finds its perfect home in an 18th-century manor house where elegance comes naturally and every cup tells a story.
The History of Afternoon Tea
The tradition of afternoon tea is attributed to Anna Russell, 7th Duchess of Bedford, who in 1840 began requesting tea and light refreshments to bridge the long gap between lunch and dinner. What started as a private habit quickly became a fashionable social ritual among the aristocracy.
Georgian and Victorian manor houses became the natural stage for this elegant ritual. The drawing rooms of these great houses—with their careful proportions, refined furnishings, and gracious atmosphere—were designed precisely for such civilised gatherings. At Ballinderry Park, dating to c.1740, this tradition continues in authentic surroundings that the Duchess herself would recognise.
The Drawing Room Experience
Afternoon tea at Ballinderry Park is served in the celery-green Drawing Room, where every element contributes to an atmosphere of refined pleasure:
The Setting
- Georgian Architecture: Original paneled walls in their historically accurate colour
- Period Fireplace: An early Kilkenny marble chimneypiece from a house in County Waterford
- Antique Furnishings: Carefully curated pieces that invite both admiration and comfort
- Chinese Porcelain: Displayed on mantels and cabinets, echoing the Georgian fascination with the Orient
- Natural Light: Tall Georgian windows that flood the room with soft illumination
The Ambiance
Unlike a hotel tea room bustling with strangers, afternoon tea at a private estate offers intimacy and exclusivity. Your party gathers in a room that feels like your own—because, for the duration of your stay, it is.
The Festive Afternoon Tea
During the festive season, afternoon tea at Ballinderry Park takes on additional magic. The Georgian rooms adorned with seasonal decorations, the fire burning brightly against winter chill, and special seasonal treats create an experience that captures the essence of traditional celebration.
Festive Elements
- Christmas decorations throughout the reception rooms
- Seasonal flowers and foliage arrangements
- Candlelight adding warmth to winter afternoons
- Mulled wine or spiced apple cider as alternatives to tea
- Christmas crackers and festive touches at each setting
Seasonal Treats
The festive afternoon tea menu might include:
- Traditional mince pies with brandy butter
- Christmas cake and rich fruit loaf
- Seasonal sandwiches with turkey, cranberry, or smoked salmon
- Spiced scones with cinnamon cream
- Yule log slices and festive pastries
- Champagne or festive cocktails
The Traditional Afternoon Tea Menu
Whether festive or classic, afternoon tea at the manor follows the traditional three-tier format:
Savouries (Bottom Tier)
Finger sandwiches with crusts removed, featuring:
- Cucumber with cream cheese and fresh herbs
- Smoked Irish salmon with lemon and dill
- Coronation chicken with subtle spice
- Egg mayonnaise with cress
- Rare roast beef with horseradish cream
Scones (Middle Tier)
Freshly baked scones served warm:
- Plain scones with clotted cream and strawberry jam
- Fruit scones with sultanas
- Seasonal variations (apple and cinnamon in autumn, lemon in spring)
Sweet Treats (Top Tier)
Delicate pastries and confections:
- Victoria sponge slices
- Miniature éclairs
- Fruit tartlets
- Macarons
- Seasonal specials
The Tea Selection
No afternoon tea is complete without a carefully curated selection of teas:
Classic Choices
- English Breakfast: Robust and full-bodied, perfect with scones
- Earl Grey: Bergamot-scented elegance
- Darjeeling: The “champagne of teas”
- Assam: Malty richness ideal with savouries
Herbal and Specialty
- Chamomile for gentle relaxation
- Peppermint for freshness
- Rooibos for caffeine-free warmth
- Green tea varieties
Irish Additions
- Irish Breakfast Tea—a stronger blend for those who take their tea seriously
- Barry’s or Lyons—iconic Irish tea brands
- Local herbal infusions
Occasions for Afternoon Tea
Afternoon tea at Ballinderry Park suits various celebrations:
Hen Parties
An elegant beginning to a weekend of celebration, allowing the bride’s party to gather in refined surroundings before the festivities continue.
Birthday Celebrations
A sophisticated way to mark the occasion, particularly for milestone birthdays where the setting adds gravitas to the celebration.
Mother-Daughter Gatherings
Creating memories across generations in a setting that encourages conversation and connection.
Festive Get-Togethers
A beautiful way to celebrate the season with close friends or family, whether as part of a longer stay or as a special afternoon experience.
Bridal Showers
An understated elegance that provides the perfect atmosphere for gifting and games without overwhelming fuss.
Anniversary Celebrations
Couples returning to celebrate their years together in a romantic Georgian setting.
Extending the Experience
Afternoon tea at Ballinderry Park can be enjoyed as part of a larger experience:
The Afternoon Tea and Stay
Arrive in time for tea, stay overnight in a beautifully appointed Georgian bedroom, and enjoy breakfast the following morning before departure.
The House Party Experience
Incorporate afternoon tea into a longer weekend gathering—whether a hen party, birthday celebration, or family reunion.
The Seasonal Escape
Combine festive afternoon tea with exploration of East Galway’s Christmas markets and winter attractions.
Planning Your Afternoon Tea
Group Size
Afternoon tea at Ballinderry Park is suited to intimate groups of 6-16 guests, allowing the Drawing Room to feel comfortably full without crowding.
Timing
Traditional afternoon tea is served between 3:00 PM and 5:00 PM, though arrangements can be flexible for residential guests.
Dietary Requirements
All dietary requirements can be accommodated with advance notice, including vegetarian, vegan, gluten-free, and allergy-specific needs.
Dress Code
While there’s no formal requirement, many guests enjoy dressing up for the occasion—smart casual to elegant attire adds to the sense of special occasion.
A Tradition Worth Preserving
In our hurried world of coffee-to-go and meals eaten at desks, the ritual of afternoon tea offers something increasingly rare: a pause, a moment of genuine elegance, a reason to gather and simply enjoy.
At Ballinderry Park, this tradition finds its natural home. The Georgian rooms were built for exactly such civilised gatherings, and the unhurried atmosphere of a private estate allows the ritual to unfold as it should—gracefully, indulgently, and memorably.
Book Your Afternoon Tea Experience
Whether celebrating a special occasion or simply seeking an experience of refined pleasure, afternoon tea at Ballinderry Park offers something truly exceptional. to arrange your afternoon tea experience and discover the pleasure of tea taken as it was meant to be.
Afternoon tea at Ballinderry Park can be arranged for guests staying at the estate or as part of day visit packages. Festive afternoon tea is available during the Christmas season, with seasonal menus and decorations adding to the celebration.
About the Author

Rowan Stainsby
Rowan is a marketing professional and founder of Kraft Digital Agency. In 2024, he and his wife Laoise purchased Ballinderry Park, a stunning Georgian house dating back to c.1740 in County Galway. Together, they are passionately restoring this historic property and documenting the journey on their YouTube channel 'Call of the Curlew'. With a vision to create a space where busy people can unwind, Rowan oversees the transformation of Ballinderry Park into a luxury destination for stays, weddings, and events while honoring its remarkable 700-year heritage.